Tonight We Talk
15 minutes. Every night. Together. Curated questions that help you and your partner connect beyond the surface.
Start tonight's conversationHow it works
Start the timer
Set aside just 15 minutes. No phones, no distractions.
Draw a question
Thoughtfully curated prompts across 7 categories, from light to deeply vulnerable.
Go deeper together
Each question has up to 3 depth levels. Start easy, go as deep as you're ready for.
The science is clear
Decades of research show that small, daily rituals of connection are what keep relationships strong.
of couples who stayed together turned towards each other’s bids for connection. Those who divorced? Just 33%.
John Gottman, The Relationship Cure (2001); research at the University of Washington
per day of non-logistical conversation is all it takes. Couples who do this are significantly happier, according to a 30-year longitudinal study.
Dr. Terri Orbuch, Early Years of Marriage Project (NIH-funded)
Couples who spend a larger proportion of their time together talking report greater satisfaction, more positive relationship qualities, and greater closeness.
Hogan et al., Contemporary Family Therapy, 2021
7 categories, endless connection
Questions informed by Gottman, Esther Perel, Sue Johnson's EFT, and Arthur Aron's research on interpersonal closeness.
From the blog
Research-backed articles on couples communication and connection.
Couples Conversation Games: 5 Free Activities for Deeper Connection
5 free conversation games for couples that go beyond small talk. From timed question rounds to storytelling challenges — no cards or app required.
Gratitude Exercises for Couples: How Saying Thank You Saves Relationships
7 research-backed gratitude exercises for couples. From the 3-minute appreciation ritual to gratitude letters — practical ways to strengthen your bond.
Questions for New Couples: 30 Prompts for Early Relationship Conversations
30 questions for new couples that go deeper than small talk without feeling too intense. Perfect for the first months of dating.
“I just want 15 minutes with you tonight.”